Let me explain. High-threshold is not, like I first thought, high-maintenance. High-threshold is the relationship that you would do anything for, never let die, compromise the love you share, basically sticking out the relationship no matter what. High-threshold is that person you know you would never let go of, the person that you would do anything for.
Low-threshold is the relationship that you have not fully committed yourself to, one you would walk away from because of an issue or disagreement. Basically, a relationship without an agreement at a deeper level.
So, here is the beginning of my high-threshold list. I know it will continue to grow, change and transform as I do, but here is the list as of now. (In no particular order, except for number one and number two).
Mr. Not Hideous: because he is who he is and I can't imagine not having him around.
Goosey: the sweet girl who is part of me. She has shaped my life in so many ways, I can't even begin to explain.
Storysmith: My sister and best friend. It has taken us about 20 years to get here, I'm so glad we finally are.
Box Car Child: My other sister, and best friend. Always my accomplice in life. The absolute free spirit.
The Plaid Man: My brother-in-law, the first man I could truly trust. He opened me up in a way to be able to receive a relationship with Mr. NH. I can't thank him enough.
The Hatlady: How could my mother not make the list?
Spiritual Mother: The woman who made me have the conversation with Mr. NH about having a relationship. She is one of the most powerful women I know.
B and L: My second parents. Two people who have shaped me into who I am, and taught me so many things about life and living fearlessly while still questioning things to find my own beliefs.
Traveling Man: It took me a long time to get to here with my Dad. He traveled a lot when I was young and I assumed he didn't love me, getting rid of that story was one of the best things I have done in my entire life.
Girl Genius: My half sister. An amazing girl, I can't wait to see the woman she turns into and how she will change the world.
Triple A: This man is unconditional love in itself. I have never met a more caring, loving, generous human being.
My Communist: She has fostered my love for travel and nature, and is brilliant.
Dances for Dull Moments: My absolute favorite choreographer, and a complete artistic genius. She is fearless.
Die Cut Queen: Ultimate teacher, camp counselor, and empathetic to the core. The only person I've ever met who won't kill a mosquito.
Sister-friend: My longest lasting friendship, and the girl who ultimately gets me.
That's my list. I recommend you make one, and share it with your high-threshold friends.
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